What's Your Problem Like?

When you’re stuck, the right question can change what happens next.

Coaching and practical tools to help you see what’s keeping you stuck and find your next move.

Introducing the Emotional Clarity Cards:

What's Your Problem Like?

A practical card deck to help you see what’s happening, ask the right questions and work out what to do next.

Choose a card that reflects your experience. Turn it over for insight, three focused questions and a practical next step.

Use the cards for personal reflection:

Put words to experiences that are difficult to explain.
Recognise familiar fight, flight, freeze and fawn responses.
Explore what may be keeping you stuck.
Get clearer about what to do next.

Or use them with clients:

Get difficult conversations started.
Move beyond simply asking, “How do you feel?”
Use focused questions to explore what’s really happening.
Help clients move from insight towards action.

40 cards. Three questions. A practical next step.
A pocket of guidance for when you need the right question.

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Work with Claire

Chances are, you’ve been on a long journey of trying to feel better. You’ve read the books, done the courses, worked on yourself, and spent years analysing your patterns. You’ve put in genuine effort, and you’ve come a remarkably long way.

And yet… something still isn’t shifting.

Often, it shows up in your relationships. You find yourself tolerating dynamics or accommodating others because you don’t want to upset anyone or create friction. You keep the peace on the outside.

But your body keeps the score on the inside.

You end up navigating:

Racing thoughts that keep you constantly on edge.
Gut issues that flare when you’re holding things in.
Headaches from managing everyone else’s comfort.
Brain fog that stops you from seeing or thinking clearly.
Fatigue that settles deep into your bones from carrying it all.

Leaving you thinking: “If only I had more energy, I could finally have the time, presence, and space for what I actually want.”

This Is Where We Begin

From the outside, you look like you’re managing everything. You get through each day doing what needs to be done. But underneath, there can be tension, exhaustion, and a sense of carrying too much.

It can be hard to find a place where you can share what you’re experiencing and feel genuinely understood.

This is why I do this work.

Rather than simply trying to manage what you’re feeling, we look at what’s happening underneath it.

What’s actually happening?
What keeps you stuck here?
What are you responding to?
What is your body telling you?
What remains unresolved?
And what needs to happen next?

When you understand what’s happening underneath, your energy can stop being pulled into the same draining patterns.

There is relief in understanding what you’re responding to, and clarity about what needs to happen next.

A Different Way Forward

You don’t need another strategy for trying harder to feel better. You simply need to understand what’s keeping you stuck.

Imagine the relief of finally seeing the map of your own life.

The patterns that are exhausting you mean you are simply out of position. Once you can see what’s holding you back and blocking you, and how much energy it takes to be confused worrying what to do next, the tension starts to lift.

When the map becomes clear, everything changes:

You know exactly what needs to change.
You know exactly what you can let go of.
And you know exactly where you want to put your energy instead.

Shift your energy from what drains you to what matters.

Why Work With Me?

For more than twenty years, I have helped deeply perceptive people understand the complex patterns shaping their relationships, decisions, and emotional lives.

I hold qualifications as a Master Trainer of NLP, an accredited Metaphors of Movement Trainer, a published author, and an award‑winning speaker. Across my career, I have trained other coaches, practitioners, and helping professionals how to read underlying human patterns, as well as facilitating workshops and retreats for clients from all backgrounds.

My approach brings together communication, behavioural change, and pattern recognition to help you make sense of complex situations. Through careful listening and thoughtful questioning, I help you see what is often impossible to recognise from inside your own experience, uncovering what is really driving the challenges you face.

Again and again, I have witnessed women struggle with issues that seemed completely impossible to resolve, until they understood what was happening beneath the surface.

What I know to be true: Things change when you finally know the hidden patterns you’ve been responding to.

Real Results

Life Changes When You Do

What’s Draining Your Energy?

Sometimes it’s difficult to see what’s keeping you caught in the same situation when you’re right in the middle of it. The What’s Draining Your Energy? Quiz gives you another way to look at what’s happening.